Julie Anne San Jose (proper) with Jonathan San Jose
Julie Anne San Jose wouldn’t have pursued a profession in music and present biz if she had listened to and obeyed her father. The singer-songwriter and actress recalled how her father initially didn’t approve of her plans as a result of he thought it could entail dropping out of college.
“Once I was 12, I instructed him I used to be planning to enter a contest. He mentioned no, however I nonetheless pursued it,” Julie Anne mentioned. “He had no thought and solely discovered after I handed the screening and went by means of with it.”
To placate her father who was disenchanted that she had gone towards his needs, she promised she would proceed her research and get excessive marks as properly.
“This served as my motivation to complete college and work on the similar time. Even when it was not straightforward as I needed to sacrifice lots of issues, it was price it.”
Julie Anne’s arduous work paid off after she graduated from College of Santo Tomas Angelicum School with a bachelor’s diploma in communication arts. She posted her commencement photograph on her socials the place she talked about how she “juggled work and research but managed to outlive.”
“It felt good as a result of graduating was additionally a present to my mother and father in gratitude for all they’ve completed for me.”
Now, her father is the one who takes me to and fetches me from work. “He’s very affected person and supportive and I can say that he’s happy with me. In any case, he’s my Dad and I’m nonetheless his daughter,” Julie Anne mentioned.
If and when she decides to start out her circle of relatives, she mentioned she would train her youngsters what her father taught her: humility, kindness and keenness. “It’s best to by no means lose that keenness as a result of while you’re obsessed with one thing, you select to like and also you select to personal it.”
Hannah Arguelles (proper) with Ricardo Sespeñe Jr.
‘Put money into your self’
Hannah Arguelles is a Sparkle expertise who has at all times wished to be an actress. She appeared within the GMA sequence “Hearts on Ice.” Hannah’s relationship along with her father is delicate within the sense that she was seldom chastised rising up.
“Though there was one occasion once I was in grade college and I instructed a narrative a couple of classmate who aggravated me. My Dad simply instructed me to be extra affected person and to attempt to see issues from the opposite individual’s perspective,” Hannah recalled.
When she has her circle of relatives, she mentioned she would train her offspring to put money into themselves. “That’s what my Dad taught me: put money into your self whether or not it’s by getting a greater training, honing your skills and even simply taking good care of your self.”
Kate Valdez (proper) with Edmond Sisante —CONTRIBUTED PHOTOS
Discovered from errors
Actress and mannequin Kate Valdez will need to have been a extremely obedient little one rising up. “In all honesty, I’ve by no means been reprimanded. My sister and I by no means skilled getting spanked or shouted at, however I’m conscious how some Asian mother and father use their slipper or perhaps a garments hanger to spank their youngsters. My Dad is probably the most even-tempered and chill individual I do know, which I deeply recognize,” Kate mentioned.
He would make her understand her errors with out having to resort to spanking or screaming. “I discovered from my errors as a substitute of being afraid as a result of I made a mistake,” she mentioned.
What lesson from her father does she intend to show her youngsters when the time comes?
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“My Dad at all times says, ‘Anak, kapag hinayaan mong ‘yung problema dalhin ka, walang mangyayari, maii-stress ka lang. So hayaan mo ‘yung problema ang mamroblema sa’yo.’ It is sensible! I didn’t perceive it at first, however now that I’m an grownup with tasks, I get it,” Kate mentioned.
